Letter: Poor behaviour at Queen's Cosford visit

We brought our six grandchildren to see the Queen at RAF Cosford. Unfortunately, what should have been an enjoyable day was marred by the disgraceful behaviour of some older members of the public.

We brought our six grandchildren to see the Queen at RAF Cosford. Unfortunately, what should have been an enjoyable day was marred by the disgraceful behaviour of some older members of the public.

They were pushing, shoving and refusing to move an inch even when asked by the security personnel to give a little more space to people around them.

The children had been sitting and waiting patiently playing card games etc for more than three hours before Her Majesty’s arrival.

How can we expect the younger generation to respect their elders when they witness this sort of behaviour from them?

There is a lot of emphasis on attitude towards the elderly, but our experience did nothing to help.

The behaviour of all the children at the pageant was excellent and I feel some members of the older generation could take some advice.

Mrs S Lewis

Braunston

Northants

Comments for: "Letter: Poor behaviour at Queen's Cosford visit"

Keith

Completly agree. I worked the pageant (Non security capacity) and to be honest the childrens attitude and behaviour from what I saw what impreccable. However, by a small minority, it appeared, if you were over the age of 50 you had no respect for barriers and those smaller/younger than themselves.

The amount of "Ladies" that were happy to move barriers, ignore Police/security, and just have a general disrepect towards the whole Pageant, I think, left a younger generation with less respect.

Shame on the small minority. I hope they knew who they were and you were seen. Don't ever moan about young people again.

stan harland

is it an age thing or perhaps a society thing.

pull the ladder up jack i'm alright.

LP

Looking at the picture I feel I can identify the older generation that the writer is referring to. They are Mr & Mrs P Mountbatten from Windsor,I'm told they regularly turn up at these type of events.

Rob, Telford

Pure class LP!!

Andrew finch

It seems to be accepted now old age is an excuse for poor manners however 50 should show a little more consideration and empathy for the young children who could not see .

However i was at a dog show last year and watched a silly 5o-60 year old woman accuse a 8 year old of cheating simply because the judge chose the childs dog , when i asked why she thought the child had cheated she said because it was obvious if the judge had not chosen her dog she would have cried and embarrassed everyone so her mother should have shown her dog .Sad but true .

Pete

There is no excuse for poor manners however nobody has a god-given right to think that they should receive preferential treatment be it on the basis of age, youth or any other reason; that is the true meaning of equality, a ticket is a ticket and should be purely dealt with upon first come first served basis.

Telford Steve

Saga louts!!

twisting my melon

Banging on about the good old days when Racism and Homophobia were rife and it was perfectly acceptable to give the Missus and kids a good slap from time to time..

but it was safe to leave the back door unlocked.

mistydreamer

Back door, what back door? There was only one back door in our whole street...until it got pinched.

Dave W

I caught someone trying to steal my back gate last night - I didn't say anything in case he took offence....

Telford Steve

Guard your classical music too, thieves are opera-ting in this aria.

Andrew finch

MMMMMM Depends which country you live in or society you belong to.

Drone

Irony deficiency anyone?

JOHN JONES

Yes, the good old days when every one could say what they wanted without fear, mind you some of us still do. Yes the country was a better place to live.

ShireFella

Yes, before the middle class, liberal-marxist 'baby boomers' took control and turned good old Blighty into a politically-correct fascist state.

twisting my melon

Not Quite Shirefella, 'Fascists' were the people my grandad used to shoot at during the war. unfortunately some folk seem to have forgotten about that and have started supporting and voting for them again via the BNP.

Rob, Telford

You forgot "namby pamby" and "elf and safety obsessed" there ShireFella, otherwise not a bad little rant.

Peter

Yes John, a country that embraces poisonous bigotry such as yours. Not much of an aspiration is it?

Neil S

I was incredulous to hear the family who cordoned off a large prime area with wind breaks then defended their right to do so on the grounds that they got there at 8am! They then proceeded to verbally abuse other attendees and accused them of ruining their day!

Rob, Telford

It doesn't say much for the type of people who attended this event.

Our republican pageant might not have been that well-attended, but me and the dogs were very polite to each other...

eva land

[I was incredulous to hear the family who cordoned off a large prime area with wind breaks]

[They then proceeded to verbally abuse other attendees and accused them of ruining their day!]

They must have been adjacent to that stand where they were all eating baked beans.

Telford Steve

Wind breakers? Baked beans?

mother

it was a great day until Shropshire County council became involved! we arrived and managed to get a good spot and was having our picnic when SCC decided that it was there space so we had to move! missed our children in the parade so the queen could see their posh frocks! they didnt even have the decency to stay until the end of parade before they got back to their probably free champers!!!

KMS

I see whingeing is alive and thriving in Shropshire, you got in free and had a days entertainment; I suspect you are not the only people to have missed something special to themselves, if nothing else it will teach your children an important lesson, you can't get everything you want in life.

mother

It has nothing to do with whingeing, yes it was free and yes it was a good day out but we have as much rights as them to watch the parade. They had not resevered the area and to move us on after we had been there a while is wrong. You obviously dont have children that you would want to share their experience with and as a parent I have taught my children that lesson,

KMS

I agree nobody should have rights above another, have you considered asking SCC the reason why you were asked to move or is the media your weapon of choice?

For the record I am a parent.

I'm glad you have taught your children well, perhaps the next thing would be for you to learn to spell and how to apply grammar and punctuation to your offerings?

Port Hill Boy

Without Shropshire Council the day wouldn't have happened.

JOHN JONES

If the space was not marked off for them why did you move? the fault is completely with you for not sticking to you rights. ie; I was here first so go away and find some where else, or words to that effect. A piece of advice from an old-un, dont let people walk over you.

eva land

After reading the sort of people the Queen has to sit next to and entertain the the Star letters today,I feel unsurprised at the well known derision the royal family has for us commoners.

I suppose it's just a job at the end of the day but conversing with fawning post fifties is a pretty ghastly aspect of it.

mother

For your information I have sent a letter to SCC and not just used the media. I have taught my children well and I know I will continue. My children have had excellent school reports thanks you. I just hope that you have taught your children manners not to insult others just to get your point across. Please reread your first reply as it doesn't make sense, I was too polite to point it out before!

Let them eat cake

2 Older ladies use the Shrewsbury - Market Drayton bus and physically push past everyone in the line toget on the bus first and do the same when they leave the bus using appalling bad language if challenged?

Only last week an old couple tried to push me forward with their Super Market trolley whilst I was waiting for the cash wrap.

This has happened quite recently. Good Manners have slipped :(

Old Tall Dithie kid

Bad manners are not exclusive to any age bracket any more than good manners are the domain of the older generation. My wife, at a petite 4 ft 10 ins had stood patiently adjacent the barrier at Cosford, hoping to catch a glance of the Queen and Prince Philip. With only minutes to their arrival, 2 men in the late twenties/early thirties, both 6 ft plus and armed with camara's needed a better view and pushed in front of her and were amazed when I remonstrated with them (I aren't 4ft)! Couldn't I see that they needed a good spot to get their photo's was their only defence. Their yobbish behaviour is sadly a to common reflection of the times we live in. So it really isn't surprising to read that older people reacted how they did. They were just responding to the unkind world that we now reside in.

CloudySkies

Visited Cosford with three school children, all very excited at being given the opportunity to see the Queen. Did they see the Queen? Nope, too many adults at the front of the barriers who had absolutely no intention of budging, even an inch, from their prime positions in order to let a small child stand in front of them.

fred bear

i know a couple or members of scc and they would be at the opening of a envelope if the cameras were there you only have to look at their facebook page

honest billy

These oloder folk think the world owes them a favour! i was in tescos recently, and as i was approaching the till and old lady in her 60's with a walking stick strode over to the tills so quickly just to get there before me, a late 20s lad! when will they realise that you are not simply entitled to manners due to age, you earn them with your manners towards others!

i know it was hard living under thatcher and john major in your youth but we have to live under clegg and camron, so its all square!

Spread the love folks

sunflower

Interesting comment - on the other hand, my retired mother was subjected to having her hair pulled, and being pushed and kicked, by two children who were being egged on by their mothers, and by the mothers themselves. The security guards had to step in as it was getting so physical. Where was the example of good behaviour from the parents? I don't think you can tar just one group with your brush - they're all as bad as each other.