Dressing not to impress

Monday 22nd February 2010, 8:00PM GMT.

 Tracey O'Sullivan donned her pyjamas for an early morning shopping trip to Asda in Telford.Supermarket giant Tesco has banned pyjama-wearing customers at some of its stores. So just what is and isn’t acceptable for a shopping trip? Tracey O’Sullivan investigates

It’s been a long day. You’ve worked hard and deserve a long soak in the bath after which you slip on your comfies – in other words, your pyjamas.

Then you remember there’s no milk in the fridge.

Or it’s that chaotic rush in the morning – two children to dress, a baby to feed, two lunchboxes to sort out, a PE kit and cakes for the school fundraiser to be packaged up, all before 8.30am.

There’s no way that getting dressed yourself is anywhere on your list of priorities. The pyjamas you are wearing will have to do. Then, on the way back from school, you remember the bread, butter and teabags you desperately need.

Oh well, no one will notice if you just slip into the supermarket in your nightwear to pick up a few essentials.

Well forget it. Tempted as you may be, you could face the scorn of other customers who may be offended by your attire or even be refused entry.

That certainly could be the case after a Tesco store banned people from shopping in nightwear, slippers or barefoot.

Notices went up at its branch in Cardiff that read: “To avoid causing offence or embarrassment to others we ask that our customers are appropriately dressed when visiting our store (footwear must be worn at all times and no nightwear is permitted).”

“We do, however, request that customers do not shop in their PJs or nightgowns. This is to avoid causing offence or embarrassment to others.”

While bosses maintain that other Tesco stores have not felt the need to put up such signs they are adamant it was pressure from shoppers that forced the move at Cardiff.

There are no such pyjama policies at Asda or Sainsbury’s, but both reserve the right to refuse admission.

So it does raise the question of whether customers are that bothered by what people wear to do the weekly shop and would they really be that offended?

It seems not that much at the Tesco at Telford’s Wrekin Retail Park where shoppers said they wouldn’t mind people popping in dressed in their PJs.

Mother of two Lisa Churchman from Coalbrookdale said she would be surprised, possibly, but not offended.

Lisa, who was out with her 23-month-old son George and her 10-week-old daughter Annabelle, looked impeccably groomed as she picked up a trolley just after 9.30am.

“I do understand that it can be such a rush for mums sometimes, especially when they have the school run to consider so I don’t think ‘offended’ would be the word I would use,” said Lisa who added she had always felt the need to be dressed and with her hair done and make-up on before she left the house.

“I do think it makes you feel better. I know I feel better if I make the effort in the morning – definitely more human and able to face the world. Although, I have to say, I have never seen anyone shopping in their pyjamas so I suppose my reactions have not been properly tested.”

It was a similar story for Emma and Matthew Cole from Hadley who arrived at Tesco with their son Finlay after attending the ultrasound scan for their second child, due to be born later this year.

Tesco's pyjama policy has already provoked protest in Shropshire. This was the scene at the Shrewsbury store earlier this month, where Paul Flinn, Ruth Stafford, Janta Wheelhouse, EsterKirby,and Claire Kirby, made their point

Tesco's pyjama policy has already provoked protest in Shropshire. This was the scene at the Shrewsbury store earlier this month, where Paul Flinn, Ruth Stafford, Janta Wheelhouse, EsterKirby,and Claire Kirby, made their point

“I don’t think I would mind at all,” said Emma. “Most pyjamas look like jogging bottoms anyway, and are they going to ban those as well?

“I can understand that feeling of just changing into your comfortable nightwear and then remembering something you have forgotten and dashing out for it, although I have never done it myself and never would.

“I suppose I would have a bigger problem if the person was not dressed because they were not hygienic and because it is a food store.”

Matthew said he didn’t think it should offend anyone if the nightwear was suitably discreet. “It’s not as if they are talking about women shopping in negligees or something. I think it should be treated with a bit of common sense rather than simply banning pyjamas.

“The manager should take a view on a particular situation if a customer makes a complaint. There are other choices of clothing which could be equally offensive.”

Putting it to the test I did an early morning dash to Asda at Donnington Wood in my pyjamas for a pint of milk. Admittedly, it was my lovely Abercrombie & Fitch grey sweat pants and slippers which look remarkably like Ugg boots, but I didn’t get a second glance.

Several customers who I spoke to seemed only too content to accept my attire.

Susan Hope from Muxton said she thought my outfit was fine for shopping and that she wouldn’t have looked twice had I not approached her for an opinion.

Although if I was being totally honest I didn’t feel as comfortable with it as everyone else did. Let’s face it, getting dressed to go out is about having, not just pride in your appearance, but a sense of confidence, self-worth and respect for the community around you.

Pyjamas don’t quite work in the same way and have a definite air of ‘can’t be bothered’ when worn out and about. For me they are definitely all about lounging at home. Perhaps it would be safe to venture out shopping again in Shropshire in those pyjamas – if you really have to.


  1. 1
    Brian

    I certainly wouldn’t be offended but there is a time and place for everything.
    If people can’t be bothered to change out of their pyjama’s, I think it reflects what a lazy, bone idle, couldn’t care less type of person they are.
    Does it take so much effort to change one’s clothes? There are those of us who sleep completely naked, will it be in order for them to go to the supermarket in the nude? The line has to be drawn.

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    Quinny

    Ban them all I say! But what about these fine bare chested young fellas that seem to like parading their Telford “toned” bodies around the supermarkets at the first sign of a ray of sunshine? Presumably this will be deemed an offence soon too.

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    Jules

    Ah! so it’s totally acceptable for “BOY RACERS” to congregate on the car park of Tescos, intimidating genuine customers, with dangerous driving, revving engines,thumping music and littering the whole area they park in? P.J’s not welcome but unruly, stupid youngsters driving potential weapons are very welcome :) Nice one Tesco you really have your priorities in order don’t you? (I am not a P.J wearing shopper btw).

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    Andrew

    It does not suprise me at all that Tesco at Wellington Retail Park welcomes pj wearing shoppers… it has disregard for its customer service … so why would it care who was sliding their overdraft agreed for cards through their payment scanners?

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    tc

    they can ensure a dress code for their employees however for their customers – that’s pushing it a bit, in these times you’d think that they’d welcome anybody who’s prepared to spend money. Everybody is son hung up on appearance these days – such a shame we can’t take one another as we are, PJ’s and all. We’ll have to have credit and crim checks next….personally give me sombeody shopping in her PJ’s over an pedo shipping in their finest bib and tucker, but then thats the point you can’t judge a book by its cover.

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    Simoninoz

    It all comes down to people having different standards I suppose, but I’m not sure if a blanket ban is the right way to go, it seems a little puritanical. Probably won’t hurt profits though, in fact the free advertising has no doubt helped raise the Cardiff’s store’s profile.

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    Jesus H Corbet

    Offended by peeps wearing their PJ’s? No. Disappointed though? Yes.

    Have some self respect will you people, you wouldn’t go to work or to the pub in your PJ’s so why go to the supermarket. Call me a snob if you like but when I see people in a supermarket in their PJ’s I think “smelly dirty unwashed scutter”

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  8. 8
    Brimondo

    I would never go to the supermarket wearing pyjamas but them I’m NOT unemployed and on benefits and I also have some self respect!

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    John Smith

    Like Jules I am frequently annoyed by boy racers on the carpark at Tescos and yet nothing is ever done. Likewise It’s ok for parents to blatantly ignore the “No wheelies” message and allow their brats to terrorise the elderly shoppers zooming about causing havoc wherever they wheel to.
    If PJ’s are not permitted, why not ban sari wearing Asian women too? After all, what’s the difference between a sari + trousers and a PJ top and trousers set? Both equally thin/see through etc…
    As for those cutoff T shirts/dropped waistband joggers or jeans/sleeveless shirts etc that some women wear in the summer months, my Lord I’ve seen less flesh on display on beaches at times than in supermarkets. Utter drivel, what is this world coming to?

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    Peppy

    Having lived in a country where pyjama style outfits are normal everyday wear, I wouldn’t bat an eyelid. How people dress is up to them. What I DO object to, is the filthy, unwashed, smelly, people who I all too frequently come across in our local Asda (Donnington) store. I’m not allowed to take my dog into the store – for hygene reasons – but these people can go round a food store, handling the merchandise, with all sorts of dirt and germs ingrained in their hands. I have seen shoppers hold their noses, and assistants drop what they’re doing and scurry off, but I’ve never seen one of these people refused entry, or asked to leave. Does anyone know the policy on this?

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    Suellan Fowler

    Not offensive but certainly indicative of either laziness or lack of pride – ok so you’re in a rush – do what I do v. occasionally when going to the all night garage – pull some joggers and a fleece over your jammies then you’ll still be toasty warm when you get back home! (Wouldn’t advise driving in slippers though!)

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    Me

    i really don’t see the problem, i have been known to pop in the pub when picking up the OH in my PJ’s. Usually because I have just got out of the bath so therefore you would be clean, its better that than some of the states I see walking around telford.

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    david childs

    Doesn’t take much to put on Jeans and a top,so think their right to object,and same with men in just shorts with no top and shoes/trainers on. A very bad health and safety issue there.
    Wouldn’t fancy my toes being run over accidentally with a trolley because i had no shoes on or trainers

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  14. 14
    Captain Disgusted

    This clearly reflects what our society has come to, who would go out to the supermarket in their pajamas, it’s called self respect, how long does it take to put a top and some trousers on – 30 seconds?

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