Now we’re getting angry

Sunday 7th June 2009, 6:00PM BST.

Rate payers? Irate payers more like, says Ben Bentley. And it doesn’t take much to set them off.

 this protest in Wem earlier this year overhousing proposals in Prees

A protest in Wem over housing proposals for Prees

Police described him as being in his mid-20s, of medium to large build, and wearing tracksuit bottoms.

But, regardless of age, weight and fondness of sportswear, on a bad day he might well have been any one of us.

The man, who tried to board a bus in Lord Silkin Way in Telford, had seen red when he tried to pay his fare in two-pence pieces – and was told by the female driver she could only accept 20 pence worth of his fee in that denomination.

That was it. He flipped. As the bus pulled away from the stop, the glass in the entrance-door shattered. It is believed the angered passenger had showered the bus with small change.

It was the latest display in a rising tide of discontent and easily triggered temper tantrums – many of which often have their roots in the economic downturn.

According to the British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy, people are becoming increasingly short-fused, and consequently it doesn’t take much to tip us over the edge.

And it’s easy to see why this might be. A bank that won’t lend you money but will pay its staff bonuses for losing your savings does rankle. A call centre that puts you on hold to a cover version of Simply Red’s Money’s Too Tight To Mention when all you want to do is pay a gas bill is prone to rubbing a human being up the wrong way.

Minor irritants and frustrations can cause us to storm out of the hair salon, slam the phone down on cold-callers and hurl verbal abuse in the street.

Heather Cawley, from Stirchley in Telford, admits she's prone to temper tantrums

Heather Cawley, from Stirchley in Telford, admits she's prone to temper tantrums

Heather Cawley, an office manager from Stirchley, is known to throw temper tantrums at the television. She can’t watch the quiz show Eggheads without her blood boiling.

In her job, too, she can be quite feisty.

She admits: “Its my job to complain about everything. I thoroughly enjoy doing it too! I generally won’t take no for an answer, and try and get my own way as much as possible. I have had reps stopped from coming to my place of work, delivery drivers stopped for driving too fast.

“Why not complain? They are being paid to do a job, and they don’t do it properly. So they need to be told!”

Shropshire Council’s call centre in Shrewsbury is the interface between taxpayer and service provider. Irate callers have been known to vocalise their feelings down the phone lines here.

Manager Melinda Swanborough says that people, and especially taxpayers, are often looking for more value for money at the moment and there is a culture of blame to fall back on when this isn’t seen to be the case.

“I think there’s a trend in the last few years for people to be more exacting in what they expect and not to be fobbed off, and sometimes people perceive that call centres are put in to fob people off – and that might be true in some cases,” she says.

Call centre manager Melinda Swanborough says people don't like being fobbed-off

Call centre manager Melinda Swanborough says people don't like being fobbed-off

“The public perception is that if you cannot answer their question, their expectations are so much higher.”

It is apparently the smaller things in life that are making us angry.

She continues: “I would say that people get irritated about waste collection. Other things where you might expect them to be more perturbed, they aren’t.

“People expect value for money and everyone knows that part of their council tax is put towards the likes of potholes and waste, and if they feel they are not getting value for money, they say so.

“People are more likely to complain now than in the past because they are encouraged to. They tend to see that the people who make the most noise get the most response.”

John Mustapha, owner of the popular Masala restaurant in St Julian’s Friars, Shrewsbury, gets very few complaints from customers, but describes how people now expect instant service, which might be an impossibility with fewer staff working because of the economic slowdown.

He says: “I had someone complain on Valentine’s night where the lady was waiting half an hour for her food. We had a full house with 60 people. She was not really happy and a couple at a table nearby started laughing that maybe they should complain as well.”

He adds: “People think that as soon as they walk to the pub or restaurant they will get served straight away but those days are gone because staff are short-handed. Because business is slower everywhere they have to cut down on manpower. People have to realise it’s an economic crisis.”

Interestingly, BUPA Wellness service says its doctors have been dealing with an increasing number of city workers and bankers.

Psychologists say anger is understandable but we must find a outlet for it other than blowing our gaskets in public.

Phillip Hodgson, a fellow of the British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy, refers to it as “recession and irritation”.

“There’s no point in getting worked up about something you can’t control,” he says.

“In the words of that old prayer: ‘God grant me the wisdom to know the difference between things I can change, and those I can’t’.

“We should try to work on the relevant bits,” he advises. “Many people in Britain have steam coming out of their ears about the behaviour of government, bankers, the market, and yes, even God.

“But we’re not going to have a lot of input into any of the above.”

No, but in terms of letting off steam at certain bankers it might make a few people feel a bit better.


  1. 1
    askeric dotcom

    Regarding the driver insisting that she could only accept 20p in 2pence pieces ….

    I seem to remember that “legal tender”, that is:
    ** what coinage a creditor is legally obliged to accept for payment of debt in “coins of the realm” used to be:

    2 shillings (20p) in “copper”,
    and 40 shillings (£2.00 or 200p) in silver.

    (The classic story regarding this used to be about the indivudual who got fined £2 for a minor offence, went to the bank, got £2.00 in farthings (in the days when there were 240 pence in the pound) and proceeded to dump all
    1,920 of them in the clerk of the courts’ office. The cashier duly counted out 2 shillings worth (96 coins), and demanded the remaining payment in silver.

    In that case, it might seem that this was reasonable, and so ..

    In strict legal terms, the driver was correct, but HARDLY an excercise in good customer relations !!

    ** Although, from the royal mint website:
    Repayment of debt is legal in the following denominations of coinage:

    COINS:
    Coins are legal tender throughout the United Kingdom for the following amount:

    £2 – for any amount
    £1 – for any amount
    50p – for any amount not exceeding £10
    20p – for any amount not exceeding £10
    10p – for any amount not exceeding £5
    5p – for any amount not exceeding £5

    2p – for any amount not exceeding 20p
    1p – for any amount not exceeding 20p

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  2. 2
    Bob

    Regarding the bus driver – not her fault, but Arriva’s. Fares and change are a long term cause of discontent for both drivers and passengers, there is room for vast improvement, but Arriva’s management is pretty useless at thinking outside of the box. They plod because they face so little competition and if the government wants to get more of us onto public transport, it needs to address issues like this. I feel sorry for the guy with the loose change. Times are hard and the last thing people want from service providers is hard faced inflexibility.

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    megammm y

    Regarding the bus driver – not her fault, but Arriva’s. Fares and change are a long term cause of discontent for both drivers and passengers, there is room for vast improvement, but Arriva’s management is pretty useless at thinking outside of the box. They plod because they face so little competition and if the government wants to get more of us onto public transport, it needs to address issues like this. I feel sorry for the guy with the loose change. Times are hard and the last thing people want from service providers is hard faced inflexibility.

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  4. 4
    Lucy W

    Eric: Quite right, its the law. I don’t expect that the muppet in case would want his dole money in 2 pence pieces. You said “in the days when there were 240 pence in the pound”, is this some biblical story you are sharing with us?

    Turning to Phillip Hodgson, who is quoted saying “There’s no point in getting worked up about something you can’t control.” Yes there is, its an excellent survival trait to overcome adversity – that’s why we have it. I mean after all, did we say “Oh Dear, Hitler’s on his way, never mind”?
    And then he is quoted saying “But we’re not going to have a lot of input into any of the above.” Well I have never heard such ignorance and apathy, and quite frankly I don’t know what to say and don’t really care.

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    askeric dotcom

    Hi Lucy

    You are having a laugh aren’t you?

    in #4 you say:

    “in the days when there were 240 pence in the pound”, is this some biblical story you are sharing with us?

    Come on Lucy – I’m sure you remember 15th February 1971 -when we went to decimal currency?

    (Surely biblical times would be 2000 odd years before that??)

    Before 15/02/1971, there were 240 pennies in the pound!! (and half pennnies) and not so long before that there farthings ! (4 farthings =1 penny)

    It’s worth reminding ourselves of this, becuase:

    in old currency, legal tender for copper was 2 shillings (now 20p) , which was 24 one penny coins, 48 half pennies, and 96 farthings, and now:

    in fact, if you think about it, represents 10 2p coins, and 20 1p coins. So it’s not as bad, (in terms of the number of coins) as it was before

    So the bus driver should be thankful its 2009, and not pre 15th feb 1971.

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  6. 6
    Suellan Fowler

    Personally I’d rather walk that use Arriva buses – by the time they show up you could be halfway there already!

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  7. 7
    Big Matty

    Arriva should have all govenement support withdrawn, all free bus passes should be withdrawn and users of public transport should pay an honest price without the guilt of burdening the taxpayer.

    This may seen extreme, but a number of things would happen. Firstly Arrivas levels of customer service would be increased as they would have to work much harder for their £3.04 billion turnover (2008). In return they would begin to lose significant amounts of money once government backing is lost and the company was run as a completely private and self sufficient opperation. Thirdly, tax payers would pay less as money wouldnt be pumped into offering job dodgers free transport.

    OK, so there are circumstances where free transport should be acceptable. For example pensioners should still recieve it. However, unemployed etc. should still pay, perhaps if they gave up smoking and stopped drinking they could afford to pay for a bus themselves?

    Maybe if we offered free contraceptives to the less intelligent they would stop the prolific and excessive breeding that we so commonly see, again resulting in another saving to the tax payer and themselves.

    There is no excuse to be rude to anyone and the vandal that smashed the window should be locked away for a long time.

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    Lucy W

    Sorry I don’t recall the day in question. I was probably snuggled up under my comfort blanket watching the Clangers. If only we’d had remotes in those days, then I would have switched over to watched the Money program.

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    tim

    Lucy – The TV remote was invented in the early 1950s. I was born in 1973 and knew that there were 240 pence in the pound, having been educated to a reasonable standard, including LSD (nothing to do with The Clangers?!).

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    Lucy W

    Tim: Sadly I had to make do with a state education and we were very poor and didn’t have a remote until the 80′s.

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